Lately my husband has been making small remarks about my hair,makeup, etc.?

I know that I havent been wearing makeup%26amp; doing my hair everyday,but he will make small remarks about it in a ';joking'; kind of way, but when I ask if it really bothers him he says that it doesn't matter to him and that he loves me just the same , but I wonder if he acts like he is joking but really saying how he feels?Lately my husband has been making small remarks about my hair,makeup, etc.?
If he told you that he loves you, then I'm sure he does.


He would probably like to see you all fixed up, like you probably were when you 2 started dating.


Just as I'm sure you get more pleasure looking at him when he's all fixed up.


It might bother him a little bit, not to the point that he doesn't love you, but just to the point of being attracted to you when you do have yourself all fixed up.Lately my husband has been making small remarks about my hair,makeup, etc.?
maybe you should check out what he's talking about before you listen to yahoo aholes. maybe you're not looking up to par. Report Abuse

then you need to tell him to STOP. even if he is joking...it bothers you and hurts your feelings. if he doens't have anything nice to say...don't say anything at all. jokes and all.
Maybe it doesn't matter to him as he says, but is still trying to give you a hint for just possibly someone (s) else has been saying something about your appearance to him.
If your hair is purple, then it might be a good idea to change it. maybe he starting to grow up or something like that.


It's like those girls in their 20s or 30s with tatoos you can see in public. Do they wonder what they would look like in their 50s or 60s? It wouldn't look nice.
Every ';joke'; has truth in it. Maybe it dosen't bother him but there's still truth to it like the fact that you aren't wearing make-up. And when he says those comments do you laugh it off because if you do then he prob. thinks he's being funny and you enjoy it. So next time he does tell him it bothers you a little bit so then he should stop. Bye the way it dosen't hurt in the morning to add a dap of foundation and mascara. But off course you don't have to because you are special and unique the way you are.
I hate to say it, but it sounds like he is definitely trying to tell you something. Ask him if he would like you to wear makeup more and what hairstyle he likes best on you. Some men just have preferences. At least he loves you.
if he actually noticed it then it he probably would like you to do it up sometimes
No matter what you do to try and please your man, somehow it's never enough. I say do what makes you happy. If he's hurting your feelings, best let him know it, though.
oh geez. he's immature.


you're married to the man, not his barbie doll.


dress up sometimes, yes...and sometimes when you're not going out, but just because you want to, do the makeup, whatever.


but on many days you should be able to just be yourself and not have to pretend you look like a barbie doll naturally.


I don't understand your husband because I think a lot of men don't care about makeup at all...in fact a lot of men I know would rather that their women not wear it.
Obviously, or he wouldn't mention it.
Only HE knows the truth.
Haha, my neighbors wife hardly ever wears makeup(and she looks good without it IMO) and I guess he said something to her about it so at thanksgiving she piled on a ton of makeup and looked like a freakin clown LMAO I mean huge deep red cricles of blush etc. it was hilarious.
Im sure he loves you,...


but they also like to see that you care enough to pretty up for them,...
He's probably just teasing you. You shouldn't worry about this kind of stuff.